A practice series for new managers

Six sessions that give people somewhere low-stakes to find out how they lead.

For
Cohorts of four to twelve first-time or recently promoted managers.
Horizon
Six sessions over three months, ninety minutes each
Sessions
6

New managers are usually given a course on process and then left to work out the hard parts on real people. This series uses activities as rehearsal space: directing without authority, listening without fixing, deciding under scarcity, and saying the uncomfortable thing first. It is deliberately not a course.

The schedule

  1. Session 1, 90 min

    Directing something when you cannot do it yourself

    Roles rotate every five minutes so everyone is Looker and Builder. The debrief is about the one-way channel: every new manager has one in their team and most have not noticed it.

  2. Session 2, 90 min

    Listening without fixing

    The trio variation, with an observer giving feedback on the listening. The no-advice-for-six-minutes rule is the hardest thing in this series for most new managers and the most useful.

  3. Session 3, 90 min

    Deciding when you cannot have everything

    The pre-auction strategy discussion is the content. Afterwards, ask each person what their first purchase says about what they will protect when their own team is under pressure.

  4. Session 4, 90 min

    Going first on the uncomfortable thing

    Each participant presents their own. The transferable skill is specific: a leader who names a failure plainly changes what a room believes is permitted, and this is where they practise it.

  5. Session 5, 90 min

    Finding out what your team is not telling you

    Each manager runs a pre-mortem on their own real project, with the cohort as the team. They facilitate it themselves; the group gives feedback on the facilitation afterwards.

  6. Session 6, 90 min

    Removing something instead of adding something

    Run on the cohort's own teams. Everyone leaves having cancelled one thing. Ending the series on a subtraction rather than a new initiative is the point, and it is the lesson most new managers are never taught.

What it looks like when it is working

  • In session five, at least one manager's pre-mortem surfaces something they genuinely had not considered.
  • Participants start running these sessions with their own teams without being asked.
  • Six months on, the cohort still talks to each other — which is usually worth more than any individual session.

Things that are hard to recover from

  • Keep the cohort to twelve. Above that the sessions become demonstrations rather than practice.
  • Nothing said in these sessions may be a performance input, and that has to be stated at the start of every session and honoured absolutely. One breach ends the series' usefulness permanently.
  • Do not mix managers with their own direct reports in the same cohort.